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Neighborhood Briefing

Phone-book recycling

The city of Tucson has a new recycling program that accepts all phone books year-round at neighborhood recycling centers.

The city's Solid Waste Management Department customer service line is 791-3171 and the recycling info line is 791-5000.

Neighborhood Recycling Centers in the Midtown area include:

* McCormick Park, on the east side of Columbus Boulevard, south of Fort Lowell Road.

* East 22nd Street and South Alvernon Way; enter from Alvernon.

CHS reunion

The Catalina High School Class of 1982 is celebrating its 20-year reunion Nov. 1-3. For more information, call Ted Abrams at 743-1999 or go online to Classmates.com.

Late Night Hoops

Registration for the Tucson Parks and Recreation Department's Late Night Hoops teen basketball program begins Wednesday.

There will be a $30 non-refundable team registration cost. The program, designed for players 13-15 and 16-19, features eight coed teams. League play is Oct. 12-Feb. 15, and games are scheduled between 7 and 11 p.m.

Participants will play on Saturday nights at the Randolph Center, 200 S. Alvernon Way; El Pueblo Center, 101 W. Irvington Road; and Udall Center, 7200 E. Tanque Verde Road.

Awards include first- and second-place trophies in each age bracket for league and citywide tournaments. T-shirts will be awarded for citywide tournament play, and to the team in each age division that best represents sportsmanship.

Free-agent lists are available to individuals not registering with a team, and free-agent teams will be formed.

Nearly 14,000 teens took part in the summer 2002 program; 6,000 are expected for the fall and winter session.

Contact the sports office at 791-4870 for more information.

Buy a lobster, or many, to assist kids, families

Child & Family Resources is taking orders for its 15th annual Lobster Landing.

The fund-raiser pays for programs that enhance the lives of southern Arizona's children and families.

Half of the price is tax-deductible.

Prices are $16 for a 1 1/4-pound Maine lobster, live or cooked; $16 for a pair of Angus rib-eye steaks; $10 for a quart of clam chowder; $80 for a Romance package with two lobsters; $150 for the Feast for Four with four lobsters; $400 for the Party package with 12 lobsters; and $900 for Loads of Lobster with 30 lobsters.

Packages include wine, salad fixings, corn on the cob, potatoes, bread, clarified butter, cookies and lobster plates, crackers and bibs.

Orders are being taken through Oct. 4 at 881-8940 and by e-mail at lobster@cfraz.org.

The lobsters will be flown in through the sponsorship of America West Airlines.

Buyers can pick up their lobsters Oct. 12 at two locations:

* In Tucson, from 8 a.m. to 2 p.m. at Child & Family Resources, 2800 E. Broadway, between Country Club Road and Tucson Boulevard

* In Green Valley, from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the Monterey Homes Canoa Ranch model center, 1920 W. Via del Pulpo.

August 29, 2002

Conversation Café serves talk

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Renee Sauer / Staff
Patricia Rosas and Mike Millard, Conversation Café founders, are reviving the art of conversation, which they say today's society is destroying.

An intelligent discussion is the main dish on this group's biweekly menu

Coming up

* The next Conversation Café will be held at 7:30 p.m. Tuesday at the Rincon Market, 2513 E. Sixth St. For more information, call Mike Millard at 325-4675. Please do not call the Rincon Market.
By Karina Ioffee
ARIZONA DAILY STAR


Talk.
It's helped build civilizations, broker important business deals and aid humans in understanding each other since the beginning of time.

But in a society where time is money, conversation is becoming a long-lost art, relegated to the likes of stitching, handwritten letters and nonmicrowave dinners.

Now a local group is trying to reverse the trend and get people to stop, listen and rekindle the flames of good old-fashioned discussion.

Gathering biweekly around cups of coffee, tea and a few brownies at the Rincon Market, at East Sixth Street and North Tucson Boulevard, the group tackles topics like education and raising children as well as more philosophic themes like the meaning of power and truth in modern life.

"Society is moving at such a fast pace that people don't have time to just sit and think anymore," said Mike Millard, one of the hosts of the Conversation Café.

Millard got the idea for the cafe from simplicity circles he began leading two years ago, forums where people got together to discuss ways they could simplify their lives, from cutting spending to de-cluttering their closets and, eventually, their minds.

The café, which is held every other week, began in May.

The rules are simple: listen, be respectful, give everyone a chance to speak.

"It's a living entity that takes on a life of its own," said Patricia Rosas, a co-host of the Conversation Café. "Shyness just evaporates."

For Jimmy Allen, who is 43 and self-employed, the best part of the Conversation Café is meeting interesting and like-minded people who are curious, passionate and as enthusiastic about learning from each other as he is.

"I am continuously searching for deeper conversation, that not only stimulates your mind, but also your soul," he said.

In late 19th-century Europe, talk was propelled to a new level when salons became the place to be seen and heard for the leading intellectuals of the era. Poet Gertrude Stein and philosopher Samuel Taylor Coleridge gathered family and friends to vent on topics like religion, politics and the meaning of art.

They talked because talking led to more concrete ideas and eventually action. They talked because they needed to understand their world better. Not surprisingly, the reasons are much the same today.

"Real conversation is something a little more in depth, something that forces me to take a subject and look inside myself and see how I feel about it," said Kieran Conner, 23.

Unlike a bar or a dance club, two venues where many people Conner's age usually go to socialize, the Conversation Café gives her a chance to meet new people who value intellectual discussion as much as she does.

"It's a nice exchange that happens because people are really there to talk," she said.

The Tucson Conversation Café is one of hundreds of similar groups that have sprouted around the United States due to disciples of Vicki Robin, author of "Your Money or Your Life." In it, this Seattle writer uses a nine-step program aimed at simplifying people's lives and focusing on their priorities.

It's a philosophy that Rosas and Millard say they have espoused in their own lives and they are, as a result, happier and more fulfilled than ever.

And lest we forget, the simple act of talking is a part of the democratic process that keeps us informed about the issues and active in our government, said Millard.

"Some of the best ideas are born from conversations," he said.

* Contact Karina Ioffee at 434-4078 or kioffee@azstarnet.com.

Selected incidents from police files. Anyone with information about the following crimes or incidents is asked to contact the appropriate local police agency.

ROBBERY - Witnesses reported the Wienerschnitzel at 2043 E. Broadway was robbed by a man with a knife Aug. 12 at about 11:45 p.m.

BURGLARY - A man was arrested Aug. 13 at about 2 a.m. in the 1200 block of East Spring Street after a man reported his home was being burglarized. Rodney Wolven, 34, of a general delivery address, was charged with burglary and criminal damage.

ROBBERY - Residents of a unit at Seneca Village Apartments, 3201 E. Seneca St., reported they had been robbed Aug. 14 at about 10:30 p.m. They said the intruders were looking for money and drugs.

THEFT - A man reported a surveying device for plumbers, worth about $2,500, was stolen from the back of his truck Aug. 5 between 2:30 and 3:30 p.m. at 3772 E. Kleindale Road. The man said he thought an employee from a plumbing business next door stole the device.

Compiled by Megan Rutherford from reports obtained from the Tucson Police and Pima County Sheriff's departments. Anyone with information about these crimes or incidents is asked to contact the appropriate police agency or 88-CRIME.

People

* Linda Louie was awarded a $3,000 scholarship from the Holland & Knight Charitable Foundation for her 2002 Holocaust Remembrance Project, an essay contest for high-school students. She is a student at University High School and is the daughter of Judy LeFevre.

* Midtown resident Mohammed Abdelwahab, a 2002 graduate of Tucson High Magnet School, will receive a $1,500 scholarship from USA Funds to pursue a degree in pharmacy at the University of Arizona. He is the son of Gasmalla Elhag and Somaia Elkhawad.

Drop us a line at People Column, Neighbors, P.O. Box 26807, Tucson, AZ 85726. Send by fax to Michele Stewart-People at 573-4140 or e-mail to mstewart@azstarnet.com. Please include your name, address, a daytime phone number and the same for the person you are nominating - and that person's connection to a Tucson or Southern Arizona neighborhood or area.